Frequently Asked Questions
1. What makes your communication approach different from traditional autism therapy?
Our approach centers on intrinsically motivated communication with each interaction rooted in the joy of a back-and-forth interaction, not compliance driven, demands, or external rewards. We focus on connection, shared enjoyment, and the child’s natural desire to communicate. Instead of prompting or forcing output, we respond to all forms of communication which leads to increased initiations leading to lasting growth.
2. How does intrinsically motivated communication help autistic learners?
When communication is internally motivated, it feels good, empowering, and purposeful for the child. This internal drive becomes the foundation for:
- More spontaneous communication,
- Increased participation,
- Greater self-advocacy,
- Reduced frustration and shutdown,
- Stronger long-term learning outcomes.
3. Is this approach appropriate for nonspeaking or minimally speaking autistic students?
Yes. This approach is designed specifically for:
- Nonspeaking students,
- Minimally speaking students,
- Students with complex support needs,
- AAC users,
- Students who have language but are stuck in prompt dependence.
4. How can I help a nonspeaking child to talk?
It all starts with the foundational skills of learning that communication feels joyful and connection feels good. Listening to all forms of communication, as simple as an eye gaze shift, grunt, smile, or reach helps a child understand that their communication has power, this knowledge inspires a drive for them to connect more which allows for more tuning to the models you provide. Though we’ve learned that not all children will use verbal language, these strategies are the same for children who will talk, use AAC or communicate using a multimodal system.
5. How is this approach used in the classroom?
Teachers use our engagement-first practices to:
- Build shared enjoyment,
- Create connection and joy between communication partners,
- Reduce pressure to allow for spontaneity,
- Reinforce initiation,
- Invigorate children’s desire to tune into staff,
- Respond to all communicative attempts (spoken, gestural, AAC, behavior),
- Improve learning engagement.
6. How can I decrease behaviors for nonspeaking and minimally speaking Autistic students?
Many “behaviors” are communication.
By tuning in, slowing down, and responding to the child’s first communicative intent, we often see:
- Behaviors don’t have to escalate to be ‘heard’,
- Fewer power struggles,
- More connection and trust.
7. Do you provide materials and resources for SLPs and teachers?
Yes — our Resource Hub includes:
- Manual – A step by step guide that teaches readers how to tune into the child, ignite their desire to engage, and build meaningful, natural back-and-forth interactions,
- Connection tools to ignite the social driver,
- Perspective shifts,
- Intrinsic motivation communication tools,
- Scripts for talking with families about communication.
8. How should I write language goals for minimally speaking autistic learners?
We recommend goals rooted in:
- Engagement,
- Shared enjoyment,
- Igniting desire for communicative intent,
- Self-initiated over prompting,
- Reciprocal interactions,
- Acceptance of a variety of communication modalities,
- Access to robust AAC.
9. Is AAC appropriate for children who are not talking yet?
Absolutely. AAC does not prevent speech — research shows it often increases it.
AAC:
- Gives immediate access to communication,
- Reduces frustration,
- Supports language development,
- Provides a bridge to speech for many students.
10. How can parents support communication at home?
Connection always comes before communication. Parents can support authentic communication by:
- Reducing pressure to talk,
- Celebrating all communication,
- Tuning into their child’s gestures, looks, movements, or behaviors,
- Creating moments of shared enjoyment,
- Following the child’s lead,
- Modeling language without demanding it.
11. Do you have a course for parents?
We currently have a fully online course available for parents to purchase as well as a manual. Visit our Products and Resources page for more information.
12. Why don’t you use withholding, ABA-style prompting, or reward systems?
We prioritize approaches that honor autonomy, connection, and the child’s natural developmental progression which leads to long term growth. Those strategies rely on external motivation and often cause:
- Prompt dependence,
- Shutdown,
- Increased anxiety,
- Reduced intrinsic motivation,
- Learned helplessness,
- Superficial, short-term communication gains then getting ‘stuck’.
13. Is this approach evidence-based?
Yes. It aligns with current understanding of autistic neurology and communication development.
Our framework is informed by research in:
- Developmental Language Approach – Sima Gerber,
- Naturalistic developmental behavioral interventions (NDBI), without compliance components,
- Child-led developmental communication,
- Relationship-based intervention models,
- Intrinsic motivation theory,
- Neurodiversity-affirming practices.
